Wednesday, 25 June 2014

Confidence Crisis

Last Friday I was lucky enough to have a sail on a Rustler 42 - a most wonderful looking yacht built by Rustler Yachts here in Falmouth. (They have built Princess Anne’s last few boats.)

Climbing aboard this boat, on a perfect evening, was one thing. Seeing the magnificent detail everywhere - down below - on deck - up the mast, the rigging - was incredibly impressive. Every boat is tailor made according to the client’s exact requirements, and it shows in the detail.

We sailed out towards St Anthony Lighthouse, nipped into St Mawes, and then returned back to Mylor. I’ve never sailed a boat that size before and the sheer power of it was mind blowing. She sails like a dream, but I’d been told she was worth half a million, so at first I was a little anxious as I was at the helm. Also the wheel was as big as me - and I’m used to a tiller, which is a different sort of steering. I was very aware of my inexperience, and not having sailed for 8 months hasn’t helped - my confidence was at rock bottom. But on the return trip I began to get into the swing of it and really enjoyed this wonderful experience. Mr B and I felt very privileged to be part of it.

But that night I couldn’t sleep. I felt a fraud, writing about sailing when I know so little. And like most of us, when that voice of doubt creeps in, my confidence plummeted.

We’d sat around chatting with Adrian and Nick (who own Rustler Yachts) that evening and they are great company, but I was aware of how much they all know, when I have so much to learn. I know I can’t compete with people who’ve sailed all their lives, but I get frustrated at how my health has had to take precedence this year.

I want to be out there, sailing and learning! I want to be good! Not just because it’s my job, but because I love it and I want to be good at it for myself and those I sail with. I want to be able to hold my own.

At least I am now fit enough to start sailing again, and I know the only way to improve my confidence is by doing it. And it’s such a joy to actually sail, that it’s no hardship. I just wish I could be better NOW!

But I am incredibly grateful to all those who are helping me along the way. You know who you are, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.


Trubes said...

Wow FP what a fun life style you are enjoying now and jolly well deserve it after all your trials and tribulations of the passed few years...Good on ya !


Flowerpot said...

Thanks Di! I am very lucky indeed x

Kim @ Him, Him Me said...

You'll get there Sue. There have been a lot of changes in your life lately & you are still healing physically and mentally too.
You have expertise in other area's, that your friends don't and you will keep learning about sailing because you really want to and you will become good at it too.

Flowerpot said...

Thanks Kim - you are right! x

Rena George said...

Love reading all your sailing posts, Sue. Your enthusiasm is inspirational. x

Flowerpot said...

Thanks Rena on both counts! x

Kim @ Him, Him Me said...

Hope you are ok and getting plenty of sailing in?

Flowerpot said...

Thanks Kim - yes just very busy!