Wednesday 11 January 2012

RIP Barrington




On Christmas Eve a much loved member of Falmouth society died. Barrington, as he was known, was the landlord of the Seven Stars pub (Pip’s local for many a year) but was also a priest, though he wasn’t ordained until he was in his 60s.

Barrington’s famous scowl and heavy eyebrows were featured in the Beano courtesy of another Seven Stars regular, Nick Brennan, a very talented cartoonist who has worked for the Beano (amongst many others) for years.

Nick caught his stance perfectly – all of us locals have been subjected to Barrington’s Glare at times, but also, if any of us were in trouble, we could always go to Barrington for help and advice. “Come to the back bar,” he would say, and we could sit there and pour out our woes. He was also adamant about his likes and dislikes - he refused to have mobile phones in the pub and to warn customers, he spiked a phone and hung it up on the wall.

Dear Barrington was a good friend to me – and to many others, though he did have a soft spot for me. One summer evening when I hadn’t known Pip for long, Barrington confided that he'd got a new car. We went outside to look at it. “Want a spin?” he said.

I agreed, hopped in and was taken for a drive by Barrington. When we arrived back at the pub, everyone was intrigued as to where we’d gone. Except my husband, who was onto his third pint and busy talking….

Barrington’s funeral was a wonderfully grand and curiously happy affair – a Requiem Mass at Truro cathedral last Friday with at least 500 people attending plus Bishop Bill, the current Bishop and many other dignitaries. Barrington had written the service out himself and would have loved it. Everyone sang their hearts out, and the wake afterwards, held in the Seven of course, went on for hours. 7 barrels of beer were drunk and they actually ran out. Which gives you some idea of dear Barrington’s popularity.

As a friend said to me at the service, “Trust Barrington to die on Christmas Eve. He’ll know that from now on it’ll be known as Barrington’s Eve.” And so it should be.

Here’s to you, Barrington. To a good and true friend.

10 comments:

Leigh Forbes said...

A lovely eulogy.

Flowerpot said...

Thanks, Leigh. He was a very special person.

Chris Stovell said...

Now I'll be thinking, 'Barrington's Eve' too! You've done him proud.

Akelamalu said...

RIP Barrington, lovely tribute Flowerpot. :)

Flowerpot said...

Ak - he was something else.

Flowerpot said...

Chris - Barrington's Eve sounds good doesn't it?!

Deborah Carr (Debs) said...

He sounds like he was one of life's true characters.

Sally said...

He was obviously a very special individual. This is a lovely warm tribute. Barrington's Eve sounds appropriate for such a well loved person.

Flowerpot said...

Sally - he was a great character and contributed a lot to Falmouth. He will be fondly missed.

Flowerpot said...

Debs - he was. Falmouth was full of such characters but they seem to be falling away now sadly...